Is it really? I don't think so...I think it's a beautiful thing if you
find the right partner but the actress thinks it's not and says she has
no immediate plans to be a Mrs, as there's no happiness or genuine love
these days. Speaking with Encomium magazine, she said;
Marriage has been overrated. It’s unnecessarily over
rated. It’s just too much of headache with how things are now. Even
ordinary relationship is a huge burden, huge headache and heartbreaking,
let alone marriage. When you can’t stand each other as boyfriend and
girlfriend, how would you live together under the same roof when you get
married?
People need to know themselves seriously. When I say
seriously, I mean spiritually before getting married. People only know
themselves physically, not spiritually, so they end up getting bored
with each other. And they will say they don’t want to get divorce
because of what society would say after investing so much on the
marriage.
They stay in that marriage and later it may
become very irritating and they start fighting. Before they know it,
everything becomes violent. You hear people say all sorts of things.
You’re the one who allowed people to get to you and start telling you
you’re getting old. You’re the one allowing them to convince you that
you’re getting old, you need to get married. Everyone will surely get
old. Who won’t get old? So, when people say I am getting old, get
married, I would tell them that’s the only thing they know. People carry
marriage like a flag.
Asked if it means she's not going to get married, she said;
No,
people should only try to be nice about marriage to make me interested
in it. Don’t tell me actresses don’t stay in marriage. Olu Jacobs and
Joke Silva have been married for long and they’re still in the marriage.
Nothing happened to their union. Omotola and her husband have been
married for long; they’re still very much together. She got married at a
young age which is good. What I am trying to say is that going into
marriage needs a lot; you don’t just go into it. My elder sister got
married at 26 and she’s doing fine in the marriage with her husband.
Now, tell me why won’t I want a family like that? But these days, people
are just too much into social media, that’s why marriages are crashing.
Marriage these days is not based on happiness and genuine love. Let me
ask, who is that poor person that has married a billionaire son? So, why
won’t marriage crash when it’s not based on happiness and genuine love?
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